Fifty Things

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Who doesn’t love a good list?

And since today is my 50th birthday, I thought I’d come up with 50 things I’ve learned along the way.

From the sublime to the ridiculous.

  1. Love is everything

  2. Marrying my best friend was one of my better life decisions

  3. Being a dad is a privilege 

  4. Every contact leaves a trace

  5. Kindness is not weakness 

  6. It is never the critic who counts

  7. The Spitfire is quite possibly the most beautiful object ever made

  8. Religion and faith are not the same thing

  9. Peanut M&Ms are entirely delicious

  10. For more than 25 years, I worked with heroes

  11. The West Wing is the finest TV show ever made

  12. And The Shawshank Redemption is the finest film

  13. Hope is a good thing

  14. Enough talk of ‘arriving’. It's always been about the journey

  15. Never trust a person who walks without a limp

  16. Kenny Dalglish is the greatest footballer I ever saw play

  17. Anfield on a European night takes your breath away

  18. Doing the wrong thing faster won’t get the right thing done

  19. If all you possess is an armchair and an opinion, it might be better to stay seated and silent

  20. Dogs ought to be available on prescription

  21. Bruce Cockburn writes songs of staggering beauty

  22. ‘I stand here dazzled, with my heart in flames, at this world of wonders’

  23. The Pembrokeshire coastline is a little piece of heaven

  24. Silence is collusion

  25. No man on his deathbed ever said, ‘I wish I’d spent more time in the office’

  26. There are very few main meals that can’t be improved with a handful of cashew nuts and a lump of stilton

  27. Leadership is service

  28. I’m not invincible

  29. There’s a lot to be said for a good romantic comedy

  30. Fear is a bad reason not to do a good thing

  31. I’d like to live in Narnia. Or at least be able to visit from time to time

  32. There’s a reason why we have two ears and only one mouth

  33. Never be slow to say sorry

  34. The Edge’s guitar intro to ‘Where the Streets Have No Name’ still gives me all the feels

  35. ‘We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.’

  36. You can’t have rights without also having responsibilities

  37. Bears are magnificent

  38. So are Peregrine Falcons. And Otters. And Blue Whales

  39. The only person you can ever hope to control is yourself

  40. Always tell the truth (that way, you have less to remember)

  41. Desert Island Discs is a lovely listen

  42. Whispers will be heard

  43. Writing is healing

  44. We need to make space in life for mystery 

  45. It would be impossible to do the job of a police officer for any length of time and to remain untouched - unaffected - by the things you see and the things you do

  46. Charlie Mackesy’s paintings stir my soul 

  47. There is beauty in that precious, old-fashioned thing called duty

  48. Friendship is more valuable than ten thousand precious stones

  49. I have been blinded by grace: the rumour that I am loved beyond measure, just as I am

  50. There’s a whole lot more to come